I understand needing trust to do it - it's that extra little step into being uncomfortable *around* that kind of trust/being able to trust like that. It's important, and it makes total sense, but it's a half step further than I was taking it, because I've been doing BDSM for more than a decade, and I have to kind of yank now and then and puzzle out the 'normal'/mainstream/whatever view.
Sounds like a good decision and one I admire the hell out of you for making. There've been a couple of situations with real life friends lately, where I wish they would have been *half* that smart.
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Sounds like a good decision and one I admire the hell out of you for making. There've been a couple of situations with real life friends lately, where I wish they would have been *half* that smart.